'' MARRIAGE '' How To Make It Work ( A Christ Centered Relationship )

Remember that Christ should be in the center of your relationship. Both partners
should allow their lives to be centered around Jesus Christ / God and His Word.
There must  ONLY  be three person involved in your marriage. Husband  and Wife and God.
That's all you need, To Makt It Work.  Marriage should be a decision by both of you
to serve one another.

Submitting yourselves to one another in the reverence fear of God.
Husbands, love your own wives , as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as a service to the Lord.

A Christ Centered  Relationship is so important for a Godly Marriage to work.
The Word of God, is full of scriptures to help you both find the PATH
to a Happy and Fulling Marriage Relationship.

Hebrews 13:4 - Let marriage be held in honor ( esteemed worthy, precious, of great price,
and especially dear ) in all things.
 

'' MARRIAGE '' How To Make It Work ( Marriage Is A Partnership )

We must remember that Marriage is a Partnership. There must be Participation in order  to Partake. Marriage / Partnership is Always a Give and Take Exchange. Each Partner in a Marriage Relationship has a Part in Participating in Giving and Receiving. Always have an Attitude of Gratitude for what your Partner does. If  each Partner Give out of Love and Appreciation to one another, your Part will Always cause your Marriage to be Successful. Marriage is a Union Ordained by God. Put the Care of your Marriage
in the Hands of God  ( His Word ) and Trust Him to work ( His Word ) through you.
'' IF '' We both Practice being a ready Listener, a slow Speaker, and slow to get Angry.
Each one of us will be doing  our part.
THIS  IS  HOW  TO  MAKE  IT  WORK  

'' MARRIAGE '' How To Make It Work

There are three issues in marriage that must be worked out. Communication, Money, and Sex. Communication is a key issue. Without good communication nothing else will work. Communication means to give or receive information, to impart to one another. It's the beginning of a meaningful relationship, a connection. Money is neutral, however the bible tells us that the love of money is the root to all evil. Decisions on making (acquiring - getting ) and spending ( dispersing ) must be agreed upon by both husband and wife, in order for it to work out favorable for both. Sex will be and can be appreciated by both when Communication and Money is intact ( unimpaired or uninjured ) agreed upon. I Pray that you can see that the order of the three is vitally important. Communication, Money, and Sex will have an domino effect, that works better together than separately. They compliment one another. You want your marriage to work. then make sure these three are working. 
How  To  Make  It  Work

'' MARRIAGE '' How To Make It Work

Marriage is ALWAYS a two way street. Marriage is ALWAYS give and take.In our marriages we should ALWAYS be willing to treat our marriage partner the way we want to be treated. Now, IF, there's that condition word again. IF, we do this, treat Him or Her the way we want to be treated by them, this is HOW TO MAKE IT WORK. Now Please ! Hear and Receive this:  IF,  each partner would concentrate on Loving, Pleasing, and Preferring one to another, doing your partner Good and making them Happy. ALL of that and More will come back to you. Sounds like a full time job don't it. '' IT IS '' IF, You want your Marriage To Work ?  The bible says to give ( whatever ) and it ( whatever you give ) shall be given back to you, in good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over.
ALWAYS BE A GIVER   

'' MARRIAGE '' How To Make It Work

LISTEN: Here is a little food for thought. ''YOU ARE NOT PERFECT'' No one is. Perfection is something you work at. You will, both of you will make mistakes. Some of them maybe Horrendous, a Real Blunder.
So PLEASE don't get alarmed. YOU, both of You, will miss the mark ''BUT'' your goal should be, to be the best you, you can be. Start with admitting when you are wrong,
next ALWAYS Forgive when wrong is done to you.
Remember This: FORGIVENESS is not for your partner it's for you.
FORGIVENESS IS FOR YOU.
No matter how large or small the wrong, or mistake, or hurt to you maybe, you must forgive.
''IF''  there's that condition word again, If you dont forgive.
''GET THIS'' If You Don't Forgive, You Will Keep On Hurting. FORGIVENESS IS FOR YOU.
You maybe saying, but you don't know what He or She did. NO ! I don't, ''BUT'' It does not matter.
Forgiveness stops YOU from hurting. Remember This: Love ( God's Love In You ) pays no attention to a suffered wrong. You can do this if you set your mind to do it. Love never fail.
YOU  CAN  MAKE  IT  WORK

'' MARRIAGE '' How To Make It Work

IF is a condition word. It means you have to do something.
IF   IT   IS   TO   BE   IT   IS  UP   TO   ME  ( YOU )  ALWAYS
We must learn to prefer one to another. Look at one another through the eyes
of Faith, through the eyes of Love, through the eyes of the Spirit, and never ever
through the eyes of the Flesh.
The Flesh will always trip you up don't let it. The bible has specific instructions
that will help you to Love Your Mate.
MAKE  IT  WORK

'' MARRIAGE '' How To Make It Work

 '' IF ''  That's a condition word. It means you have to do something. IF you want your marriage to work you have to do your part in making it work. Now that's not predicated on what your partner does. It's always predicated on what you do. Most times people look at and judge others by what they do, and look at and judge themselves by there good intentions. '' THAT'S NOT RIGHT ''. First of all don't judge. Second always think the best of every person.Your responsibility is not how your partner treat you, BUT, your responsibility is how you treat your partner. Treat them the way you want them to treat you. Remember what you sow is what you'll reap. Please allow me to give you a little food for thought. Learn to encourage yourselves with these words. They can be life changing.

IF   IT   IS   TO   BE   IT   IS   UP   TO   ME