Friday, December 28, 2018

RELATIONSHIPS pt 3

WORTH  SAVING

All Marital Relationships are Worth Saving. WHY ???
When You have invested time in Your Marriage IT IS Worth Saving. Why take Yourself  through
the annoyances of starting over. Learn to perfect that which You have time invested in.
Chances are if this Marriage IS NOT Working for whatever reasons, DO NOT mean, start over,
or throw it away, in hopes that the next one will, because that's NOT necessarily so.
Especially if both persons ARE NOT going in the same direction.
Now !!! that's something to give serious thought to. How CAN two walk / live together,
when they ARE NOT IN Agreement.
If God IS NOT IN The Mix, You won't make it, it won't work.
That's the grounds for NOT Getting Married in the first place.
That's also the grounds for going in Your own separate ways.
This Insight IS for those that are Contemplating Marriage, as well as for those that are already
in a Marriage Relationship, and  for those whose  Marital Relationship IS unequally yoke.
The Love chapter of the Bible ( 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 ) should have been a intimate part
of Your Lives before Marriage. If it was not,  it should become an intimate part
of Your Marriage now. Read those verses from several translations and get understanding.
Marriage Partners must learn the art of Give and Take, and not always questioning
what Can I Get , rather what Can I bring to the Relationship. Relationships must be Worked,
they ARE NOT and WILL NOT be Automatic. Partners must learn to see each other,
through the eyes of love and faith and NOT after the flesh. When this is learned,
WORTH SAVING.

Be Encouraged
Robert and Barbara Corprew

Saturday, December 15, 2018

RELATIONSHIP pt 2

GIVE and TAKE
Relationships Must be Give and Take in order to work for the good of both Persons.
Give and Take meaning - Love DO NOT insist on it's own way. If and When both persons
Practice purposefully out Giving or out Doing for the other. Your Relationship will then
always be in a Give and Take Position. Learn to see the good in Your partner.
If and When You choose to labor on the bad or mistakes of Your partner,
You will find Yourself  NOT Giving. If and When that happens,
Love will insist on it's own way, therefor You will NOT See
the needs, desires, wants of Your partner. WHY ??? Because now You ONLY See
what You need, desire, want for Yourself. The meaning of that IS Selfishness.
GIVE and TAKE - IS a Two Way Occurrence meaning Practice being a GIVER

Be Encouraged
Robert and Barbara Corprew